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Jeans: important item! How good you look depend HEAVILY on how good your jeans look ON YOU. Maybe once in 2 years I find nicejeans that fit perfectly, so when I do, I buy regardless of price.
I will also treat them as if ancient artifact that can break easily. (Not wearing them at work or on mountain trips) No matter what I paid, I have invested maybe 100 hours of shopping-time finding them. This means that perfect jeans are comparable to a good stereo or old car in value! (I'm serious - I value my time like this!)
So, if you compare shopping to a treasure hunt, quality jeans are the ultimate treasure! Always keep an eye out for them!
Shoes: Easily 2nd most important item. (Some say most important!!) When buying shoes, keep in mind what shirts you like/have and try to match both color and style. Try to have a variety of foot wear that mirrors your different types of shirts, t-shirts and jackets and vise versa.
If you want to wear something original or crazy that grabs attention, shoes are ideal for this! Girls LOVE when guys make an effort to wear the right shoes! It turns them on!
Respect your good shoes like you respect your good jeans. Keep them clean and dry. Never wear them two days ina row. Have a system for storing your shoes away from floor.
Shirts/t-shirts/pullovers:Here you can go more nuts and shop freely Just make sure you have at least one pair of shoes that match the style and or color of what you buy!!
If you go seriously to the gym, always buy slightly larger. Right now I'm going through the pain of having to part with some favorite shirts that have become too small.
Belts, hats, scarfs, chains etc:Look for items that make it more clear what your style is. If an item makes your style diffuse, don't wear it no matter how nice it is. Be sharp!
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Capitulate to Women's Whims : "Yes Dear." "Whatever you want, honey." Men only say this to avoid conflict (at best) or (at worst) because they pathetically think that their efforts will somehow impress a woman. Women smell insincerity a mile away. Sorry.
Is Afraid to Lose the Woman He Is With: Therefore, he literally bends over backwards not to "upset" her or say the wrong thing. Despite the obvious desperation involved here, arguably the most unattractive aspect of all this to a woman is how BORING it is.
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A need to tell and hear stories is essential to the species Homo sapiens--second in necessity apparently after nourishment and before love and shelter. Millions survive without love or home, almost none in silence; the opposite of silence leads quickly to narrative, and the sound of story is the dominant sound of our lives, from the small accounts of our day's events to the vast incommunicable constructs of psychopaths - Reynolds Price
A story can be to entertain or show that you are a cool guy but a good story is used to attract, anything can be a good story, you need to develop your ability to relate and express a story. Once you get good at this, you can create interest out of thin air, storytelling accomplishes a number of objectives that normal guy talk and asking questions doesn't.
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We hear it said of some man that "he just cant get himself together", what this means, on a deep level, its that so-and-so experiencing and can not experience his deep cohesive structures. A man who can not get it together is a man who has probably not had the opportunity to undergo ritual initiation into deep structures of manhood. It can be said that life's perhaps most fundamental dynamic is the attempt to move from a lower form of experience and consciousness to a higher level of consciousness. All of human life at least attempts to move forward along these lines.
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Most guys have terrible body language which may put women off. However, by simply learning a few secrets you can instantly make a great impression,
Whatever you do, don't look down: Just like when you are hanging off a cliff! Keep your head held upright. If you feel the need to look away, look up, never look down! Looking down is a sign of weakness and also does not look attractive. You can observe this in other people. It has even been proven that looking down can have a bad effect on your mental state.
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